As I sat in my balcony brooding over the thoughts that come
to my mind, I figured out that there is nothing more complicated that anyone
struggles to understand more than the convoluted structure of life, the deeds
we do in life and all the connections we try to forge during our lifetime. There
has been numerous occasions when I have tried to succumb to the desires of
penning down all the stuffs that whistle in and out of my mind. Voila! Finally,
the day has come.
Silence
The vast universe and your mind has its own way of
communicating to yourself, be quiet enough to listen to it. When there is a
conflict between mind and heart, listen to none. Yes,I mean it. Give it some
time, the conflict will clear on its own.
Happiness
Some find happiness by staying close to their roots. Some
find it at home .Some travel the whole world to find it. Some find it doing
something that they love. Some find it in their work. Some find happiness in a
person. Ultimately ,you have to find what or who it is.However,when you let go of toxic people and discard evil thoughts, it paves way
to a happy and a peaceful life.
Attitude
Being strong is as much an illusion as being weak is.Begin
every day with a smile and a positive attitude.It will make you realize how
much stronger you have become than yesterday.
Change
Every life experience will help you metamorphasize into a
brand new human being.Make sure your changes are positive.Before you bring
about a drastic change,remember that you have to begin with a small change
first.
Love,Care and Trust
No matter how good you are ,you may end up making bad
choices.It is human to make mistakes.Forgive people who don't deserve it
too.When you have good intentions and good character and you keep your
promises,you surround yourself with love,care and trust.You just have to care
to make a difference in someone's life.Be a good human.Be a friend to all.
Whereas once you tell a lie ,then all your truths become
questionable.Remember that you are the one who made yourself vulnerable to the
benefit of doubt.
Fear,Mistakes and Failures
As I emphasized before,it is only human to make mistakes,but
never forgot the lessons that your previous failures taught to you.In your
lifetime,it is impossible to commit all the mistakes and learn from
them.Rather,learn from other's mistake too.But don't begin to judge them.Think
before you speak.
Negativity
Do not feed the demons that are inside of you.A wise person
never pays attention to gossips.Being negative only makes your journey more
difficult. Do not get stressed over mindless drama.
Anger and patience
You are no one to judge others.Start defining yourself
without blaming others.Expectations always hurt.Listen to what others have to
say as there is always two sides to every story.But make decisions on your own free will.Do not let your thoughts to
trouble you.You are the architect of your future.You will feel at peace,once
you begin to accept yourself.
Dignity,Respect and Honor
Learn to respect yourself first.Stop comparing yourself to
others because it undermines your worth,your education and your parent’s
wisdom.When you feel your dignity is at stake,just walk away from whoever or
whatever it is.Do not make excuses.
Life Goals and Success
If you do not put in your efforts,the goal shall remain
merely as a dream.You can have everything you want in your life.But never give
up on the things that you already have in your life. However, it takes good
timing, the right heart, the right actions, the right passion and a willingness
to risk it all. If it is not yours, it is because you really didn’t want it,
need it or god prevented it.
Time
Focus on reality.This will help you make the most of
whatever time you have on earth.Make time for people you love.
No one has understood everything in life.There is no magical
potion to solve everyone's problem.The process has just begun in me and I have
a long way to go..... :-)
Nice one Manisha..
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